Rocks in the Road
A couple of days ago I was coming back from a short trip to Guapiles...a trip which takes me over the mountain and through the cloud/rain forest. It's a pleasant drive most of the time. The scenery is great...forest, waterfalls...nearly always is raining. Driving at night is a little more precarious because of the curvy roads.
This time it was just dusk, not yet dark and I was making good time. As Costa Rica roads go, this one is pretty good. There are passing lanes for up-mountain traffic, which is nice because there are lots of eighteen wheelers and slow vehicles. I was passing one of those trucks on a curve when the truck suddenly locked his brakes and came to a tire smoking stop. Naturally I was shaken out of my driving stupor and at once became alert, not having time to even wonder what was happening. As I passed the truck I saw the reason for his lurching halt. Were it not for his alertness and quick reactions, his cab would have slammed into a rock about the size of a two drawer filing cabinet. Apparently it had fallen off the side of the mountain onto the road.
I stopped in front of the truck, as did another car, and we all got the rock off the road, along with some smaller ones that had accompanied it down, and then we all proceed on our journey.
OK. Allow me to wax philosophical a moment...make a metaphor, if you will. There are times in this life when we are just ginning along at a good pace. Things are going well. Then suddenly, through no fault of our own, there is an obstacle in our path. Fortunately, in this case, the driver of the truck was alert. Was he expecting to see a rock in the road? Probably not. But he was aware that the unexpected can happen, reacted quickly, and stopped. Then he had some choices. He could sit there and bemoan the fact that a rock had fallen in his path. It wasn't his fault. Just rotten luck. Poor me. He could back up and go around the rock, leaving it there for the next vehicle to deal with. After all, again, it wasn't his fault the rock was there. Let every man look out for himself.
Or...he could get out of the truck and move it out of the way. That's what he did...or tried to do. Maybe he could have eventually moved it, but it was so much easier with help. He could have told us, "Hey. It isn't your problem. It's in my lane. I'll deal with it." But no, he gladly accepted extra strength, and together we had it out of the road in a couple of minutes.
Interesting. Not only did the rock get moved and the lane cleared. There was something else that happened. In that two or so minutes, there was sort of a bond created between three complete strangers. We had participated in a team effort to do something that needed doing...something good. We were all thanking each other and smiling.
OK. Applications: Unexpected obstacles and/or events come into our lives. One shouldn't live scared, but should be alert to danger. We can let them wreck us, or we can deal with them and proceed on our way. We can try to do something that will help the one coming along behind us. Sometimes we need help to get the problem solved.
Helping others is a good thing. Removing rocks from our road could just help someone coming along the same way later.
